Conversation cards for couples
Questions for the two of you
Fifty questions in five decks, from easy openers to the conversations most couples put off. Play them over dinner, on a walk or on a quiet evening in. There is no score and nothing to win.
Choose your decks
Thank you for playing
You have been through every card.
Some questions will have been easy and some will have landed somewhere tender. The ones that were hardest to answer are often the ones worth coming back to.
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More questions, and what sits behind them.
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Working together
When a question is hard to answer together.
If one of these cards opened something the two of you could not settle, that is often where couples therapy is most useful. The first session is an assessment, with no commitment beyond that session.
Book a session
These cards are for conversation, not therapy. If you feel unsafe in your relationship rather than unhappy in it, contact the National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247, free and open 24 hours.